How to wish Your Loved Ones ?

Vakada Tirumala Rao
3 min readSep 3, 2020

Have you ever wished to anyone?

May be your parents,teachers,siblings,or strangers On their birthdays or marriage days or any other event like this?

“Of course, You did”, I think.

But,before answering that question, Let me ask you another basic question.

Why do we wish anyone? What’s the need of it?

We,generally, wish anyone just to please them.

Again, another question?

Why do we need to please someone?

To answer this one, I can say directly,that it’s not necessary for anyone to please someone.

But, to be frankly saying, We do many unnecessary things often. Just because if we like doing something, we do it at any cost either it’s necessary or not.

And,

A wish basically is, Conveying, to our loved ones, what we feel about them( in us ).

I’m not sure whether the received will be happy or not by those wishes. But, we will be happy thinking that we wished them.

What happens if we do not we wish?.

Nothing happens to the receiver,but, the feelings or the emotions of Love,care on them (in us) remain like as just as those stupid thoughts we get daily. And there’s nothing of use in it. We suffer ourselves for not revealing our Hearts to them.

Then, How to wish?

By a flower or a chain or a golden necklace,or a watch or an expensive Dress ?

And along with them, What do we say?

You say simply,” Happy Birthday!” like a stranger said ?

You don’t and you can’t.

So, you need to write something which attracts the receiver more than anything. And, With those wishes, he/she must feel very happy.

And,

Before the receiver like it, you have to like it personally.

Yes!

You read it correctly, First, We have to feel (to) what we are writing.

And those words should convey our hearts directly.

And,there is No need of expensive vocabulary but a simple and genuine. They have to touch the heart of a receiver.

Here are some ways

1.You have to start writing with what they are to You and the affection between you both, And it’s okay if you illustrate 2 or 3 best moments you have with them. So that they recall all the fun you had.

2. And also, it’s important to mention that you are very thankful for having them in your life and also explain how you might be if they were not with you. So, that they come to know how worth they are to You.

3.And, finally, end it by hoping to wish like this in future many times making them believe that We need them to be with us in our future.

Here, I’m presenting a sample one.

Have a glance at it.

If you wish her on birthday, you like her

But, if you miss her, you love her

You are wealthy if you have power

But, you are healthy if you have lover

I don’t wish to love you

But, I love to wish you

It’s a beautiful wish to refresh you the freshness of life

You need to feel if you want to heal

I guess I am mortal.

So, I make you to be immortal with my magical beloved wishes .

Usually gifts are presented on birthdays.

But, I know (that) you know that having the beloved ones itself is an awesome gift.

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Vakada Tirumala Rao

A seed of IIIT with infinite passion to Learn and Grow.